Hand talk

According to Chris Carter a person who uses hands while talking is not a very talented communicator when it comes to verbal communication. The hands are used to reinforce what is already expressed by speaking. Chris Carter refers to Frank Black in tv series Millennium, and he says that Frank is so sure about himself and confident that there is no need to reinforce what he says. Frank Black is not a sales man, he is not that kind of person.

In order to develop my personality, I have decided to try this. I have to stop talking with my hands! I often find myself using much body language while talking to people, especially when the person I talk to is not a very talkative person himself. I think that if I change that, maybe people will listen. It's a way of getting attention by doing something unusual. It is not obvius why a person tries to receive attention by making as less of his own appearance as possible. That is why I have to do this. Always an attention whore...